What God Wants


So much weight seems to be put on what God wants … or at least people speculating on what God wants.

Whole wars have been fought, and still are being fought, because one group thinks God wants one thing and the other group thinks God wants something else.

We see it today in American politics, and elsewhere in the world, on issues like sexuality, poverty, marriage and so many more issues. Families get broken apart, for those impacted suicide becomes something to ponder, people close their hearts to God because they feel rejected and judged.


I will give you my belief on what it is that God wants. Hopefully I will not come across as arrogant or presumptious in doing so. It is generally anathema to me to claim that I know what God wants, but I believe this one statement IS actually what God wants.

God wants to be in relationship with you.

That’s it … all these groups who try and lable people and force them to fit in or else be ostracized. That is not what God wants.

If you are gay, God wants to be in relationship with you.

If you committed adultery and have been divorced, God wants to be in relationship with you.

Whatever it is that is supposedly “your sin” based on what this group or that group tells you … it doesn’t matter, God wants to be in relationship with you.

None of us are ever going to be perfect … just because we aren’t perfect doesn’t mean we are supposed to be out of relationship with God. God gave us FREE WILL … why would God give us free will if the minute we exercised it we are condemned or kicked out???

That literally makes no sense at all … it ceases to be free will. But no one will tell you that.

You don’t even have to go to church in order to be in relationship with God (gasp, sacrilege).

Whoever you are, wherever you are, whatever you’ve done, whatever religion you are a part of … it’s simple, God wants to be connected to you, to be in relationship with you.

That happens when your heart is open … when we get judged, condemned, ostracized, persecuted or beaten down what happens? We close our hearts … and then we are not in relationship with God in that state.

So why would religions want to force people to close their hearts by engaging in those aforementioned behaviors? Is their priority to get you to fit into their “group” … or is their priority that you be in relationship with God?

If it is the former rather than the latter … you might think about looking for a different “group” to be a part of.

Or better yet … just open your heart and connect with God on your own. Then if you want to share that with others, you can find a group that is supportive of you being connected to and loving God.

Because I gaurantee you … I feel confident in saying that the one thing I KNOW God wants … is to be loving you, and having your love in return.


Religion4All is an idea: that every human being (no matter their race, religion, sexuality, social status, lifestyle, or any other possible factor) is LOVED by God; just … as … they are.

We all are loved by God, and NO religion or person has a monopoly on it. Every single person on this planet is loved equally by God … SO many are cut off from God because they are told they don’t belong. God loves everyone … we ALL are beautiful creations … we don’t need to cringe when we hear the words “God”, or “religion”, or their judgments … God LOVES us all!

There is no requirement to change in order to be LOVED by God, or to LOVE God. God is LOVE, and LOVE is God … period. There is no one who God loves more than anyone else … there are only those who choose to LOVE more … to love God more, and consequently then to love each other more. In doing so, we grow closer to God … and know God.

By opening our hearts, and minds to God (free of boundaries like religion, or social trends); by LOVING God … we are exactly where we are meant to be. If we maintain that openness, never allowing any person or event to make us close our hearts, we will be guided by God to be who we are meant to be.

In that space of openness we can then live a life of LOVE, and be guided to where we are meant to be … forever in LOVE.

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  seraab417 wrote @

since God is light, unless we walk towards light how can we have relation with light ?

  Chris wrote @

To be without light is to be in utter darkness. Thus, if we are not in utter darkness we are constantly in relation to light. Even on the darkest night, we are still caressed by light. To have no relation to light is to lock one’s self in a chamber and prevent light from getting in. Even then, the light is still just outside the chamber waiting for you to open it up … and as soon as you do it embraces you anew. This is how God is to us … always with us. We are never apart from God unless we consciously choose to sever that connection.

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